All posts from the Trans Advice Column:

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• My gender makes me feel gross for being attracted to girls, how do i deal with that?

• How can I meet other post-transition people?

• Media rec: To Survive on this Shore

• How do I get my sister to stop making gaydar jokes?

• What is the issue with using Indigenous genders as “evidence”?

• How can I honour others' pronouns when they are triggering to me?

• How do I convince my husband that calling everyone they/them is misgendering?

• What do I do about my partner's changed behavior after I came out?

• How do I fix things with my partner after saying something that hurt him?

• Is it normal to only begin questioning your gender at 14?

• What is some advice for navigating the liminal space while transitioning?

• PSA: Anti-trans legislation

• What is some advice for a soon-to-be parent?

• Update: How do I come out as nonbinary to my straight partner?

• Am I rushing into being trans?

• How do I come out at work?

• Ask a Manager guest post

• How do I come out as nonbinary to my straight partner?

• How do I cope in a relationship where I'm not out as trans?

• My boyfriend is gay, but I'm not really a man or masc at all -- what should I do?

• How do I not get burnt out by misgendering and deadnaming over the holiday?

• How can I feel more comfortable with change?

• Nobody asked: How to learn about trans and gender diverse people

• Nobody asked: Misgendering and mispronouning

• How can I learn someone's pronouns?

• How should I come out to my friend when I'm afraid he'll take it badly?

• What is the difference between nonbinary and transgender?

• How do you respond when someone comes out to you?

• PSA: Stop saying "opposite sex"

• I've started questioning my gender. What should I do now?

• How can I ask questions and make mistakes without being labelled as transphobic?

• Should I write historical fiction about people I think were trans?

• PSA: current language

• PSA: he/she/they

• Am I in denial and too scared to come out to myself?

• How do I tell my best friend that I'm not cisgender?

• How can I navigate gendered sibling dynamics as someone outside the binary?

• How can I make gendered clothing feel more androgynous?

• What do I do about someone who will probably misgender a guest?

• How can I support trans and gender diverse relatives at family gatherings?

• How do you hold onto hope that things will get better?

• Would it be useful for me to be out at the library I work at?

• Is late-onset dysphoria a thing?

• Was inviting my cis co-worker to a pride party a mistake?

• How do I apologize for getting pronouns wrong?

• Does the idea of "passing" perpetuate the gender binary?

• Should cis folks use gender neutral pronouns?

• Is it okay that I'm not out as trans?

• Is it actually helpful for cis people to share their pronouns?

• How do I come out after I know my gender?

• Does enjoying wearing makeup mean I'm not really trans masc?

• How do I respond to "I identify as a truck" or "my pronoun is computer"?

• What is some advice for teens who are exploring gender?

• Can I use different pronouns even if I'm not trans?

• How do I convince someone that saying "preferred pronouns" isn't right?

• How do I handle microaggressions in the workplace?

• How trans do I have to be in order to come out and make changes?

• Should sharing pronouns be mandatory?

• How do I best support my new coworker?

• Nobody asked: Gathering personal information

• How much dysphoria is normal?

• How do I correct my new coworkers when they misgender me?

• Am I moving "too fast" on my gender journey?

• How do I support my friend after their top surgery?

• What are some non-gendered family relationship terms?

• Why might an AFAB woman identify as trans?

• Is the "fad" of kids changing their pronouns harmful?

• Is there a respectful way to address people that isn't gendered?

• How do I talk about someone when I don't know who they're out to?

• Can I put pronouns on my resume?

• What is the Trans Advice Column?