What do I do about my partner's changed behavior after I came out?
Q: My partner and I have been together for 17 years, married for almost 13, with a daughter. I came out on New Years Day 2022. Since...
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- Mar 13
- 6 min
Is it normal to only begin questioning your gender at 14?
Q: I'm 14, and currently identify as non-binary (they/her). Prior to a few months ago, I'd never questioned my gender at all. But hearing...
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- Mar 12
- 5 min
What is some advice for navigating the liminal space while transitioning?
Q: I realized I was trans in September 2021. Since then, I have been pacing myself with changes (I'm autistic and must approach life...
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- Jan 30
- 7 min
Am I rushing into being trans?
Q: Objectively the answer would be yes- I started coming out to people as early as two weeks after I realized that I (maybe?) had...
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- Jan 29
- 9 min
How do I come out at work?
Q: I'm a pre-everything trans man who works at a medium-sized tech company. I'd say most of my coworkers are aware of my existence...
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- Jan 10
- 3 min
How do I cope in a relationship where I'm not out as trans?
Q: I was wondering if you had any advice for how to cope in a relationship where you are not out as trans yet to them. In my current...
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- Jan 5
- 5 min
My boyfriend is gay, but I'm not always really a man or masc at all -- what should I do?
Q: sorry if this is kind of long. so for the last few years ive identified as masc agender & gay, and i was very comfortable with that....
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- Dec 19, 2022
- 3 min
How do I not get burnt out by misgendering and deadnaming over the holiday?
Q: This is my first Christmas back with my family since I changed my name and pronouns. How do I not get burnt out from correcting people...
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- Nov 23, 2022
- 6 min
How can I feel more comfortable with change?
Q: Every time I allow myself to identify as a trans man I get so scared and anxious of the change I so desperately want that I end up...
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- Sep 20, 2022
- 3 min
How should I come out to my friend when I'm afraid he'll take it badly?
Q: I want to come out as a trans guy to my best friend. He's a cis guy and most definitely what people would call a Chad. I know how this...
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- Aug 29, 2022
- 6 min
I've started questioning my gender. What should I do now?
Q: I started questioning my gender. I don't know which pronouns to use or even if I want to change my pronouns. I have no idea what I...
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- Jul 23, 2022
- 7 min
Am I in denial and too scared to come out to myself?
Q: Hi! Ever since I was little I’ve always been more drawn towards things that are considered “masculine”, including different names that...
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- Jul 15, 2022
- 4 min
How do I tell my best friend that I'm not cisgender?
Q: I'm a trans man and I've had an online friend that I've known for over a year now. When we first met, I thought she would assume that...
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- Jul 11, 2022
- 3 min
How can I navigate gendered sibling dynamics as someone outside the binary?
Q: I know this can vary a lot per person, but I was curious on how to navigate the gendered dynamics and expectations as someone who is...
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- Jul 7, 2022
- 4 min
How can I make gendered clothing feel more androgynous?
Q: Hi! About six months ago I figured out that I am genderfluid. I have come out to a couple of my friends but not my parents. My cousin...
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- Jul 4, 2022
- 6 min
What do I do about someone who will probably misgender a guest?
Q: my mother has a serious problem with misgendering. it's not malicious and she gets really offended that her character is being...
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- Jun 19, 2022
- 6 min
How do you hold onto hope that things will get better?
Q: I am fortunate enough to live in a place where I can at least theoretically be out professionally and have been able to tell my...
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- Jun 13, 2022
- 6 min
Would it be useful for me to be out at the library I work at?
Q: Hi! So, I'm a librarian in training. I'm also non-binary, trans masc, although the term I mostly use to describe myself is just queer....
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- Jun 6, 2022
- 2 min
Is late-onset dysphoria a thing?
Q: So I can't remember any dysphoria growing up, even as I started to realize I fell somewhere outside the binary. And that was years ago...
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- Jun 4, 2022
- 4 min
Was inviting my cis co-worker to a pride party a mistake?
Q: Help! I work with a group of people who arrived in the last year from all over the US and internationally. One of them posted on our...
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