How do I get my sister to stop making gaydar jokes?
Q: Okay, so. I've been dating my boyfriend long-distance for almost a year (since last August). We've met multiple times, but he's only...
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- May 23
- 6 min
What is the issue with using Indigenous genders as “evidence”?
Note: Since this question concerns a nuanced topic with a great deal of ignorance around it, we invited a guest author (K2) to add a...
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- May 20
- 3 min
How can I honour others' pronouns when they are triggering to me?
Content note: This question includes discussion of verbal and emotional abuse. Q: I believe in honouring the pronouns people use as a way...
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- May 19
- 4 min
How do I convince my husband that calling everyone they/them is misgendering?
Q: Hi, we’re a queer family - husband is bi, the kids are gay, trans and non-binary. I’m the only straight cis gender person in the...
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- Apr 27
- 3 min
What do I do about my partner's changed behavior after I came out?
Q: My partner and I have been together for 17 years, married for almost 13, with a daughter. I came out on New Years Day 2022. Since...
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- Apr 10
- 6 min
How do I fix things with my partner after saying something that hurt him?
Q: ive been dating this trans guy for almost a year now. when we met, i identified as a lesbian. we fell in love and i gave up the label....
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- Mar 13
- 6 min
Is it normal to only begin questioning your gender at 14?
Q: I'm 14, and currently identify as non-binary (they/her). Prior to a few months ago, I'd never questioned my gender at all. But hearing...
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- Mar 12
- 5 min
What is some advice for navigating the liminal space while transitioning?
Q: I realized I was trans in September 2021. Since then, I have been pacing myself with changes (I'm autistic and must approach life...
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- Mar 7
- 2 min
PSA: Anti-trans legislation
Things are extremely scary right now. There is a very real and extremely harmful spike in anti-trans legislation, from blocks to...
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- Feb 24
- 6 min
What is some advice for a soon-to-be parent?
Q: My wife and I are both cis-gendered, and we're expecting a baby next month. We know our baby's sex, but we haven't told anyone, in...
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- Feb 13
- 2 min
Update: How do I come out as nonbinary to my straight partner?
Content note: This update describes someone coming out to a partner who says some anti-trans things in response. Update from this post....
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- Jan 30
- 7 min
Am I rushing into being trans?
Q: Objectively the answer would be yes- I started coming out to people as early as two weeks after I realized that I (maybe?) had...
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- Jan 29
- 9 min
How do I come out at work?
Q: I'm a pre-everything trans man who works at a medium-sized tech company. I'd say most of my coworkers are aware of my existence...
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- Jan 20
- 1 min
Ask A Manager guest post
We had a guest post this week on Ask A Manager, where we wrote about a few topics around gender inclusion in the workplace: getting...
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- Jan 16
- 5 min
How do I come out as nonbinary to my straight partner?
Q: i am afab, and have a boyfriend that i've been dating for 2 years now. my problem is, i am nonbinary, and want to come out to him, but...
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- Jan 10
- 3 min
How do I cope in a relationship where I'm not out as trans?
Q: I was wondering if you had any advice for how to cope in a relationship where you are not out as trans yet to them. In my current...
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- Jan 5
- 5 min
My boyfriend is gay, but I'm not always really a man or masc at all -- what should I do?
Q: sorry if this is kind of long. so for the last few years ive identified as masc agender & gay, and i was very comfortable with that....
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- Dec 19, 2022
- 3 min
How do I not get burnt out by misgendering and deadnaming over the holiday?
Q: This is my first Christmas back with my family since I changed my name and pronouns. How do I not get burnt out from correcting people...
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- Nov 23, 2022
- 6 min
How can I feel more comfortable with change?
Q: Every time I allow myself to identify as a trans man I get so scared and anxious of the change I so desperately want that I end up...
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- Nov 15, 2022
- 5 min
Nobody asked: How to learn about trans and gender diverse people
We wrote recently about decentering yourself when learning about trans and gender diverse people. But how do you actually go about...
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