Is it normal to only begin questioning your gender at 14?
Q: I'm 14, and currently identify as non-binary (they/her). Prior to a few months ago, I'd never questioned my gender at all. But hearing...
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- Mar 12
- 5 min
What is some advice for navigating the liminal space while transitioning?
Q: I realized I was trans in September 2021. Since then, I have been pacing myself with changes (I'm autistic and must approach life...
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- Mar 7
- 2 min
PSA: Anti-trans legislation
Things are extremely scary right now. There is a very real and extremely harmful spike in anti-trans legislation, from blocks to...
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- Feb 24
- 6 min
What is some advice for a soon-to-be parent?
Q: My wife and I are both cis-gendered, and we're expecting a baby next month. We know our baby's sex, but we haven't told anyone, in...
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- Feb 13
- 2 min
Update: How do I come out as nonbinary to my straight partner?
Content note: This update describes someone coming out to a partner who says some anti-trans things in response. Update from this post....
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- Jan 30
- 7 min
Am I rushing into being trans?
Q: Objectively the answer would be yes- I started coming out to people as early as two weeks after I realized that I (maybe?) had...
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- Jan 29
- 9 min
How do I come out at work?
Q: I'm a pre-everything trans man who works at a medium-sized tech company. I'd say most of my coworkers are aware of my existence...
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- Jan 20
- 1 min
Ask A Manager guest post
We had a guest post this week on Ask A Manager, where we wrote about a few topics around gender inclusion in the workplace: getting...
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- Jan 16
- 5 min
How do I come out as nonbinary to my straight partner?
Q: i am afab, and have a boyfriend that i've been dating for 2 years now. my problem is, i am nonbinary, and want to come out to him, but...
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- Jan 10
- 3 min
How do I cope in a relationship where I'm not out as trans?
Q: I was wondering if you had any advice for how to cope in a relationship where you are not out as trans yet to them. In my current...
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- Jan 5
- 5 min
My boyfriend is gay, but I'm not always really a man or masc at all -- what should I do?
Q: sorry if this is kind of long. so for the last few years ive identified as masc agender & gay, and i was very comfortable with that....
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- Dec 19, 2022
- 3 min
How do I not get burnt out by misgendering and deadnaming over the holiday?
Q: This is my first Christmas back with my family since I changed my name and pronouns. How do I not get burnt out from correcting people...
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- Nov 23, 2022
- 6 min
How can I feel more comfortable with change?
Q: Every time I allow myself to identify as a trans man I get so scared and anxious of the change I so desperately want that I end up...
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- Nov 15, 2022
- 5 min
Nobody asked: How to learn about trans and gender diverse people
We wrote recently about decentering yourself when learning about trans and gender diverse people. But how do you actually go about...
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- Oct 20, 2022
- 2 min
Nobody Asked: Misgendering and mispronouning
It's very common to refer to using the wrong pronouns as misgendering, but this term isn't quite accurate. Misgendering refers to...
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- Oct 5, 2022
- 2 min
How can I learn someone's pronouns?
Q: I want to make sure I'm not misgendering people, but sometimes I don't know how to find out what pronouns a person uses if they...
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- Sep 20, 2022
- 3 min
How should I come out to my friend when I'm afraid he'll take it badly?
Q: I want to come out as a trans guy to my best friend. He's a cis guy and most definitely what people would call a Chad. I know how this...
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- Sep 9, 2022
- 3 min
What is the difference between nonbinary and transgender?
Q: Are nonbinary and transgender different things? How should these terms be used? K: The short answer is that nonbinary (sometimes...
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- Sep 8, 2022
- 3 min
How do you respond when someone comes out to you?
Q: Could you provide advice for how to react when someone comes out to you? What should you say at first? How to ask how to best support...
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- Aug 31, 2022
- 1 min
PSA: Stop saying "opposite sex"
It's dismayingly common to see the language "opposite sex" when someone really means "different gender." Neither sex nor gender are...
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